Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Stupid, Doormat, Weak....



NONE OF THE ABOVE


When I was a teenager and an immature young adult, I looked at women that stayed in hard marriages as Stupid, Doormats and Weak.

I having no idea what they went through, or how it felt to be in their shoes labeled them as such.

They say Karma is a Bee word, and I must concur!


Karma Hit my like a slug to my stomach, and it hurt!

Sometimes we have to go through trials similar to those people that we judged and labeled so we can have empathy for them…because not only do you have an idea of what they are going through, you have felt what they are feeling.

TODAY I AM ONE OF THOSE WOMEN….

I am not Stupid…I am Wiser
I am not a Doormat…..I am a secure home for my children
I am not Weak……I am  stronger, ready to face any challenges that come my way



I look at all the Women in my life that have made it through similar situations and I take my hat off to them…

I look up to those women and I know that in them lies an inner strength, something that is hard to find now days, in them lies HEART.

MY Inner Strength comes from learning about myself throughout the trials I endure:

-What I will tolerate and what I won’t tolerate
-What I deserve and what I don’t deserve
-What I stand for and what I will avoid
- Where my breaking point is
-Who I need to turn to for advice and comfort and who I shouldn’t turn to

I am grateful for my trials…they continue to polish my character and smooth my rough edges as I continue on this Mortal Journey to becoming the Woman God intended me to be, I’m far from perfect and I don’t attest to be…..but I am progressing and progression is always a good thing.

It is too early to say how things will go in regards to my situation…but I have put my heart and soul into fixing what was broken on my side,  so come what may and love it!



Tool box Ready!!